I have two beautiful children. I have a girl and a boy. My daughter is nine and my son is two. I can remember giving birth to daughter. I was just a teenager not knowing what was happening at all. I can remember this birth so well because I was 16 in the 11th grade never experienced anything like this and not telling my parent’s I was having a baby. I was disappointed in myself and knowing my parents would be as well. I did not want to let them down, but I just could not find the right words to tell them. To make a long story short, I was seven months pregnant when my family found out.
I never went to the doctor nor lost the baby. By the grace of God I had a healthy six pound five ounce baby girl. The only pains I had were the contractions during labor. I was able to get the epidural, with restrictions of not moving while injecting the fluid because it could cause severe spinal damage. I am thankful that I was blessed during this pregnancy. Many people are less lucky than I were and I would never take my life or my daughter’s life for granted again.
My son’s pregnancy was much more difficult. I became pregnant with him my last semester of college. I was totally drained, tired, and sick. I could not eat any foods that I loved and was very tired everyday. I was so much bigger than my first pregnancy and I also waited seven years later to have another child. This was a big change for me to have to start all over again. Despite the differences I had a healthy seven pound six ounce boy that was not ready to make his entrance. I was in labor with him for a whole 14 hours.
I love both of my children and would not change them for anything in the world. Unlike the United States women usually have their babies at the hospitals and some may have theirs at home. The birth of a baby in Africa is much more complicated.
The birth of a baby, which should be a joyful occasion, too often brings heartbreak and agony for African families. Pregnancy and childbirth complications are the leading cause of death and injury for women in developing countries. Yet women are key to the health and wealth of their communities. Without them, the family cannot hope to thrive.In Africa, a staggering one in 22 women dies in pregnancy or childbirth. In the UK, it is just one in 8,000. While conditions such as high blood pressure, breech births and hemorrhaging are easily treated in the UK, African women are likely to die from them because they lack access to good quality health care or a trained midwife. Only 37% of births in the least developed countries are attended by a skilled health worker.
Many women, particularly in remote areas of Africa, have little choice but to give birth to their babies at home. With their mother or grandmother at their side, they are lucky if the birth goes smoothly and there are no complications. But if things go wrong, the nearest help can be hours away. With no transport, this means their only option is to walk, often in the middle of labor, to get help.
Reference
Giving birth – the most dangerous thing an African woman can do? (2012, March 09). Retrieved July 09, 2017, from https://www.theguardian.com/journalismcompetition/giving-birth-the-most-dangerous-thing-an-african-woman-can-do